Inspirational Quotes on Change

February 28th, 2009

“The world we have created is a product of our thinking;it cannot be changed without changing our thinking.”
—Albert Einstein

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“We must be the change we wish to see in the world.”
—Gandhi

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“I am only one; but still I am one. I cannot do everything, but still I can do something. I will not refuse to do the something I can do.”
—Helen Keller

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“Light tomorrow with today.”
—Elizabeth Barrett Browning

Easy Meditation Technique: Watch Your Thoughts By Writing Them Down

November 21st, 2008

Practicing mindfulness meditation through journal writing can be a very effective technique for going within. As you write, thoughts will come bubbling up and since you have to slow your thoughts down in order to write them down, it’s easier to observe them.

An easy way to do this is something known as free writing. In free writing, you sit down with paper and pen and write quietly for a time. (I find the quality of writing with paper and pen is different from sitting at a keyboard and I suggest it for this experience. Of course, your mileage may vary.)

There are many beautiful journals to choose from, but some journal writers I know feel inhibited from writing in them by the belief that something so beautiful should be saved for a special occasion. If that’s the case with you, just round up some scrap paper, a yellow legal pad, a looseleaf notebook made from recycled paper, or even an old paper bag, along with your favorite writing implement. Use whatever helps you feel free to write.

Then find a quiet place where you can write undisturbed for a bit.

The idea of free writing is to be free of concerns about spelling or punctuation or capitalization or proper grammar or even your subject matter.

It’s perfectly all right to write “I don’t know what to write.” for as long as that feels like what you want to write.

Eventually, other thoughts will come along and you can start writing them down.

The only real rule is to keep writing. Write continuously without pause whatever thoughts come into your head.

Sometimes the thoughts you put down will surprise and delight you; sometimes you’ll just be clearing out worries, fears, irritations, or what may seem like nonsense.

No matter.

Writing will help you pay attention for a while.

Some writers set a timer and write continuously for their chosen amount of time. I suggest that you just write continuously until you feel done, but allow yourself at least 15 minutes to do this, so that you have a chance to get the flow started.

To enhance this process even more, you can combine a brief relaxation with your period of free writing.

Start by taking three, slow deep breaths and with each out breath, let go of any tensions in mind or body, as you say to yourself “Relax.”

Repeat that slow deep breath in, and again on the out breath, say “Relax.”

And once more, breathe in, and on the out breath, say “Relax.”

Now close your eyes and let yourself relax even more.

Count down from 5 to 1 as you take 5 more slow, deep breaths, counting to yourself as you inhale, and letting yourself relax even more as you exhale.

Count 5 as you inhale and relax as you exhale … Count 4 as you inhale and relax as you exhale … Count 3 as you inhale and then relax as you exhale … Count 2 as you inhale and relax as you exhale … Count 1 as you inhale and relax even more deeply as you exhale….

Just let yourself feel relaxed, and whenever you’re ready, still very relaxed, open your eyes and begin to write.

Write continuously in stream-of-consciousness until you have a page or two or three and then stop when you feel done.

When you’ve finished writing, count back up from 1 to 5, bringing your peaceful feelings back with you.

Whatever you have written is for you alone. What you do with it is up to you. This exercise is more about the experience of focusing your attention for a time. Any insights you may have gained are a bonus.

You may want to save what you have written in a private place if it contains some thoughts you want to remember but don’t want to share with anyone else.

But it’s also OK to shred it or even burn it ceremoniously, if it was all about getting your flow started or about letting go of something in your life.

Give yourself the moment to complete this experience in whatever way you choose and then come back to your day, ready for whatever is next.

I wish you a satisfying writing experience.

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If you’d like to feel inspired to write in a similar way every day, check out Julia Cameron’s guidelines for writing Morning Pages in her book The Artist’s Way: A Spiritual Path to Higher Creativity

Another wonderful book on writing, full of ideas for using writing as a meditation, is Natalie Goldberg’s classic, Writing Down the Bones: Freeing the Writer Within

Inspirational Quotes on Imagination

June 19th, 2008

“Imagination is more important than knowledge.”
—Albert Einstein

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“If we all did the things we are capable of doing, we would literally astound ourselves.”
—Thomas A. Edison

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“Think left and think right
and think low and think high.
Oh the thinks you can think up
if only you try!”
—Dr. Seuss

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Inspirational Quotes on Love

February 29th, 2008

“Teach only Love for that is what you are.”
—A Course in Miracles

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“We are all born for love. It is the principle of existence, and its only end.”
—Benjamin Disraeli

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“With love, even the rocks will open.”
—Hazrat Inayat Khan

Twelve of My Favorite Hypnosis Books

February 18th, 2008

 

 

One of the first books I read when I began my study of hypnosis was Hypnosis for Change by Josie Hadley and Carol Staudacher. It was a wonderful way to begin!

There are many other excellent hypnosis books, many of which I will review for you on this blog. But for those of you who want to get started on some good books right now, I’ve assembled the first of what I expect will be many lists of books I highly recommend.

All of the books on this list are ones I own and refer to regularly for inspiration. Some are huge references, offering lots of scripts and inductions, some could be used as texts for hypnosis training courses (and, in fact, some are), some are good introductions to some of the true masters of hypnosis, and some are guides to the actual application of hypnotic processes with many tips and how-to’s offered with great love and a bit of humor.

I’ve included links for each of these titles, most of them links to Amazon. Many of them have Amazon’s “peek inside” feature, which lets you see the table of contents, the index and some excerpts, so you can get a good sense of what the books are like. These Amazon links are affiliate links. If you happen to order something after clicking on them, you’ll also be donating a small amount to this blog, so thank you!

Twelve of My Favorite Hypnosis Books:

Hypnosis for Change by Josie Hadley and Carol Staudacher  A wonderful way to begin, this is also so comprehensive you’ll refer to it often. If you could own only one book on hypnosis, this would be a great choice.

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The Art of Hypnosis by Roy C. Hunter  An excellent first course in hypnosis written by an experienced hypnotist and teacher. Inductions, deepeners, suggestibility tests are all very well covered.

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The Art of Hypnotherapy by Roy C. Hunter  The companion book to The Art of Hypnosis, covering advanced therapeutic techniques like parts therapy and age regression in a thorough and professional way.

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Hypnotherapy by Dave Elman  A great book by one of the masters. You’ll find the often-referred-to Elman Induction here and much, much more.

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My Voice Will Go With You: The Teaching Tales of Milton H. Erickson, M. D. by Sidney Rosen  A good introduction to another master hypnotist, which gives you a good sense of Erickson’s artful use of language and metaphor for therapeutic purposes.

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The New Encyclopedia of Stage Hypnosis by Ormond McGill  Fascinating and technique-filled volume by this long-time expert. Highly revered among hypnotists, Ormond McGill was considered a master by many.

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Handbook of Hypnotic Suggestions and Metaphors by D. Corydon Hammond  Truly a compendium. It’s not often we can use that word, but it fits here. Most professional hypnotherapists want this in their libraries if they don’t own it already. A 600 page collection of scripts and techniques.

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Hypnosis - How to Put a Smile On Your Face by Shelley Stockwell  Lots of heart, lots of humor, lots of hypnosis. Shelley’s “playshops”are always filled and you’ll see why when you take a look at this.

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Extraordinary Healing by Marilyn Gordon  Deep inner healing with a very loving process combining hypnosis and an energy tapping technique called EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique). Having attended many of her workshops, I can tell you that Marilyn is the real deal. Her loving intention shines through in all her work.

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Finding True Magic by Jack Elias  Amazing? Transformative? Comprehensive? It’s hard to describe this book loaded with scripts and techniques incorporating relaxation, imagery and NLP based on the philosophy that we can heal when we awaken from the trance state we’re already experiencing. Many wonderful examples of how that is accomplished.

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Monsters and Magical Sticks: Or There’s No Such Thing as Hypnosis by Steven Heller  Often mentioned as the hypnosis book people read again and again. Fun to read, filled with stories of NLP (Neuro-Linguistic programming) and hypnosis in action told by a gifted teacher who helps us see how natural the trance state is and how therapeutic it can be.

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Trance-formations: Neuro-Linguistic Programming and the Structure of Hypnosis by John Grinder and Richard Bandler  Grinder and Bandler like to take things apart to see how they work and then share what they’ve learned so others can recreate them. Based on some of their dynamic lectures on the processes of hypnosis and NLP, language patterns, Milton Erickson and so much more, this book teaches you techniques while at the same time employing them. You’ll probably want to re-read this to see how they did that.

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That should get you started. Enjoy!

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For more books recommended here previously, click on the Book and CD Recommendations category in the right hand column of this blog.

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Want to share some of your own favorite hypnosis books? Just click on comments below.

 

 

 

Inspirational Quotes on Hope and Possibilities

January 20th, 2008

“If seed in the earth can turn into such beautiful roses, what might not the heart of man become in its long journey to the stars.”
—G.K. Chesterton

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“If we all did the things we are capable of doing, we would literally astound ourselves.”
—Thomas A. Edison

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“Even if I knew that tomorrow the world would go to pieces, I would still plant my apple tree.”
—Martin Luther King, Jr.

Meditations for Relaxation, Creativity, and Learning for Children and Adults

October 19th, 2007

The book, Spinning Inward by Maureen Murdock, (Using Guided Imagery with Children for Learning, Creativity and Relaxation) is an excellent resource for introducing children, or anyone, of any age, to going within through meditation or visualization.
 

Maureen  offers many wonderful exercises in guided imagery here, 33, in fact, designed to teach relaxation, explore multi-sensual learning, improve skills and self-image, encourage creativity, and develop the ability to be calm and focused.

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Among the exercises is a beautiful relaxation meditation designed to foster healing, as well, called Waterfall of White Light.  Also included in the collection, are exercises with titles like Crossing Senses, Skill Rehearsal with a Master Teacher, Time Traveling, The Ally Within, Heart Meditation, Clearing Space, Sanctuary, and Knowing Your Potential.


Guidelines with each exercise give you:

suggested ages (some can be used with children as young as three, most are appropriate for all ages, up to and including adults)

time required (typically from 5 to 10 minutes, some even shorter, a few a little more extensive) and

time for follow up (if anyone wants to share any part of their experience or write or draw or express themselves in some other creative way)

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The guidelines make it especially easy if you’re looking for meditations you can use with students in a classroom, or in workshops for adults. They work well for self-hypnosis, too. Try recording some of your favorites and listening to one for 5 to 10 minutes a day. Some parents have even used some of them like bedtime stories. If you do that,  just change the suggestion at the end from waking up to letting yourself fall asleep and have pleasant dreams.

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Maureen offers many, many other practical tips, as well. One idea I liked was her suggestion to give fidgeters a small ball of clay to hold while doing an exercise. Another one was to engage the participants as they come back to awareness. Most often, at the end of a meditation session,  you’ll be led to return to awareness to the count of 5 while listening to the suggestion to keep the peaceful feelings with you. Maureen Murdock counts all the way to 10, inviting those meditating to join her in counting when she reaches the number 6. For example, “In a moment I will count to ten. Join me at the count of six, opening your eyes at ten, feeling refreshed and alert…”

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To give you a sample of what you will find, I’ve included an excerpt below from an exercise that’s a great introduction to the whole experience. From the section called Learning with All the Senses, it’s especially good for activating your creativity. It’s designed to help you become more keenly aware of your senses and to notice which ones you may use most easily. Paying attention to which images are most vivid for you may help you discover which learning styles you’ll find most effective.

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Maureen suggests changing the exercises in whatever way suits your needs. I took her suggestion and substituted some different images for the some of the originals. Whenever I use guided imagery, I always like to be sure people know that it’s not only OK, it’s actually good to change the images, if the ones suggested are not to your liking. So, for example, when you encounter the suggestion to think of the smell of pine trees, if you’re thinking, “But pines trees make me sneeze!”, you can change the image to something you like instead, like the smell of pizza or mint tea.

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The whole idea is to have a positive experience. Changing the images as you go along becomes part of the process of learning to pay attention to your thoughts and to recognize your power to choose different ones. Let any undesired image go and choose one that you prefer instead.
What follows is an excerpt adapted from an exercise called:

Multi-sensory Imagery


As always, begin by getting comfortable in a place where you won’t be disturbed for a little while.

After helping you to relax, the meditation begins by saying:
In a moment I will suggest to you several images on each side of your brain.

I’ll pause after each suggestion so you’ll have a moment to experience each image.

Just keep your eyes closed and then begin by looking to the left side of your brain.

On the left side, let yourself experience the color blue….

Now let that image go and look up into the right side of your brain.

On the right side, let yourself experience the color orange….

Each time you change sides, let the last image go and allow yourself to experience a new one.

Now, on the left, you experience the texture of something soft, like the skin of a baby’s cheek….

on the right, the texture of something rough, like tree bark….

Now on the left, you smell the good smells of a bakery….

On the right, you can smell pine trees….

On the left, you taste a bite of a cookie you like….

On the right, you taste a slice of lemon….

On the left, you hear the sound of wind chimes….

On the right, you hear a loved one saying your name….

Now let those images go, and imagine that your body is as light as a feather….

You see a soft, fluffy cloud nearby that can easily carry you. You can ride on it if you like….

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The meditation goes on from there, allowing time for some exploration floating on a cloud, and then calls you back to the room for a chance to share your experiences. This would be great to use before any creative activity.

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I strongly recommend this book for anyone working with children, of course, but if you’re also looking for a great resource to use with adults or to inspire your own personal creativity, don’t miss this gem. There’s much to like within its pages. Spinning Inward by Maureen Murdock is available at this link from Amazon, if you’d like to check it out.

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I’ll leave you with a quote from the preface:

“The essential act of imaging, like all creative art, is the bringing into being of a vision. The images we spin inwardly become the reality we spin out.”
—Maureen Murdock

 

 

 

 

Inspirational Quotes on Peace

September 21st, 2007

 

“There is a place in you where there is perfect peace.
There is a place in you where nothing is impossible.”
—A Course in Miracles

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“There is a silence into which the world cannot intrude.
There is an ancient peace you carry in your heart and have not lost.”
—A Course in Miracles

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“The only way to have peace is to teach peace.
By teaching peace you must learn it yourself.”
—A Course in Miracles

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“Each little gift you offer to your brother lights up the world.”
—A Course in Miracles

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“Let there be peace on earth and let it begin with me.”
—Sy Miller and Jill Jackson, songwriters

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These quotes on peace are in celebration of Peace Day, September 21, 2007
For more on how people all over the world are marking this day, check this link:
http://www.peaceoneday.org/home.aspx

I especially liked the video of the song, No Wars Will Stop Us Singing.

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For the complete lyrics and the story of the song, Let There Be Peace On Earth, you can visit this site:
http://www.jan-leemusic.com/history.htm

 

What’s the Good Word? Mindfulness Meditation With Your Thesaurus

September 3rd, 2007

 

Serendipity, or, discovering something valuable by accident, is one of my favorite experiences. When considering some words for the title of something I was writing recently, I looked for some synonyms for words having to do with abundance and well-being and soon found myself feeling very positive and very peaceful.

It dawned on me that what I had been doing, without realizing it, was a sort of mindfulness meditation or self-hypnosis. As I considered each word, I was trying it on and seeing how it felt, getting an inner sense of the word. Just by reading through a list of words in this way, I was putting myself in a positive mental state.

To give you a better sense of what I’m talking about, here are some of the words and their synonyms:

Abundant - richly or plentifully supplied, ample, more than enough, to abound, to overflow, to be fully supplied.

Flourish - to grow well or luxuriantly, to succeed, to fare well, to prosper

Prosper - to be successful, to flourish, to thrive

Well-being - quiet pleasure, contentment, ease, comfort, coziness, great satisfaction, euphoria, good health, fitness, rosiness, wholesomeness, robust health, glowing health, picture of health, in fine fettle, mint condition, heartiness, bursting with health, full of life and vigor, vital, blooming, feeling one’s oats, to feel happy, sing, purr, smile, laugh, beam

Wow - apparently it works when you write them too.

If you’d like to try this for yourself, just follow the instructions below.

Of course, the first thing you’ll need is access to a thesaurus, so here are some links to some  - one free online thesaurus so you can try this right now and one which links to Roget’s International Thesaurus, the book, on Amazon, if you don’t yet own one but would like to.

When I did this meditation initially, I used a book and could see all the entries for a word on the page, which might have some advantages. But either way should work just fine. You might also like to have a pen and some paper nearby for any notes you’d like to make.

The Thesaurus Meditation

Sit down with your thesaurus. Begin by choosing some words that are soothing to you, representing peace, a favorite color, perhaps, or the way you’d like to be feeling, or just some words that you happen to like.

If you’re having trouble thinking of some, you might try the words, kindness, happiness, and gratitude.

Let yourself get comfortable and take three slow, deep breaths.

Now, as you look up your chosen words in the thesaurus, spend a little while reading the synonyms, following where they lead. When you notice some words that you like, look those up and let yourself be led from pleasing word to pleasing word. Continue for as long as you like.

Notice how you’re feeling as you go. You might even want to write some of your favorites down when you’re finished, so you can easily return to this positive state whenever you read them.

Have fun with this. I wish you great peace and a happy experience of serendipity.

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Serendipity -  a chance discovery, finding, spotting, recognizing, bringing to light, finding treasure

Peace - quietness, stillness, restfulness, comfortableness, harmony, concordance, heart’s ease,  feeling at home, sheltered, calm, tranquil, soothed, composed, being relaxed, experiencing serenity, nirvana

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If you try this and would like to share your experience, just click on the word “comments” below this post.

Comment - to observe, note, mention, remark, muse, reflect, give one’s two cents’ worth, express, affirm, exclaim :-)

 

Mindful Eating

August 16th, 2007

Even though I broke a tooth last week, it doesn’t hurt. It just seems fragile, so I’ve been very careful to do all my chewing on the other side of my mouth until my dentist can do his magic.

So I decided this would be the perfect time to practice mindful eating.

Mindful eating, some say, can be used as one tool in a weight loss program. Instead of mindlessly consuming your dinner in front of the TV, barely noticing what you’ve eaten and never feeling really satisfied, you slow everything way down and observe each individual action, which, together with many other individual actions, makes up the activity of eating.

Eating this way has opened up a whole new world. I’ve been paying careful attention as I select one blueberry from my plate, lift it to my lips, place it in my mouth, taste its sweet blueberriness on my tongue followed by a burst of tartness as I bite into it and feel my mouth begin to water. The practice continues with careful chewing and swallowing and even paying attention to the sensation in my belly after it arrives there.

Everything I have eaten over this last week has been eaten in this same way - some tiny chunks of watermelon, some spoonfuls of rice and hummus and steamed spinach with melted rice cheese, a little yogurt. Each one eaten very slowly, very mindfully.

I have to say that I’m finding it very satisfying to really pay attention to each bite. And, interestingly enough, I actually have lost a few pounds this week. Fascinating.

I first learned about mindful eating a few years ago in a workshop given by a fellow hypnotherapist teaching us about the weight loss program she offers her clients. For this experience, she asks them to practice eating grapes mindfully.

If you’d like to try it, any bite-sized food that you enjoy will be suitable. Fruit works well. Some people eat just one piece of their favorite chocolate mindfully. You may discover why some consider mindful eating one path to enlightenment.

The following script leads you through the process of eating one bite of food mindfully. If you choose to eat a whole meal this way, just repeat the process with each bite, allowing your stomach to tell you when it’s satisfied.

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Mindful Eating Script

Begin by selecting a bite-sized food that gives you a feeling of well-being, and sit down in a quiet place where you won’t be disturbed.

Breathe in slowly as you count to yourself, 1–2–3–4 and then breathe out slowly 4–3–2–1.

Take several more slow, deep breaths as you allow yourself this quiet time.

Let a welcome feeling of relaxation spread over your scalp and neck and shoulders, down over your cheeks and jaw and tongue and down into your belly. Just let your belly feel soft and relaxed.

Now take a moment to appreciate this food you have chosen, as you notice its shape …, its color…, its texture….

Describe it simply to yourself. If it’s a grape, for example, you might say something like - it’s rounded and green and smooth.

Think of this food being nourished by the sun and the rain and the earth, before it came to you.

Pay attention to how you are feeling about this food.

As you look at it, you can even say a little thank you, if you wish.

Notice the part of you that decides to begin eating.  As you move your hand slowly toward the food, observe your hand and describe your actions to yourself - reaching, reaching, reaching, and then observe your hand lifting, lifting, lifting, as you raise the food to your lips.

Before putting it in your mouth, take a moment to smell the food.

Notice whether you desire this food and where in your body you feel that.

Take a bite of the food and close your eyes, noticing how the food feels in your mouth.

Slowly chew.

What tastes do you notice? Sweetness? Sourness? Saltiness? Bitterness? Mildness? Spiciness?

Appreciate the taste and describe it simply to yourself.

Swallow when you’re ready.

Now, with eyes still closed, be aware of any sensations in your stomach.

Think of the energy of the sun and the earth entering your body, bringing health and nourishment to every cell.

Stay with that feeling of well-being for a while.

When you’re ready, bring your attention back to the quiet place you have chosen and open your eyes, still feeling very good.

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Inspirational Quotes on Inner Peace

July 31st, 2007

If you have inner peace, the external problems do not affect your deep sense of tranquility. You are happy regardless of circumstances.
—Dalai Lama
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Therefore, in our daily life a certain way of thinking makes us happy, and a certain way of thinking makes us unhappy. In other words, there are certain states of mind which bring us problems, and they can be removed; we need to make an effort in that direction. Likewise, there are certain states of mind that bring us peace and happiness, and we need to cultivate and enhance them.
—Dalai Lama
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Peace starts within each one of us. When we have inner peace, we can be at peace with those around us. When our community is in a state of peace, it can share that peace with neighboring communities.
—Dalai Lama

Take a Break With Self-Hypnosis

July 18th, 2007

Every so often I run into my notes for the Five Finger Exercise, one of my favorite self-hypnosis breaks. This version is adapted from a wonderful book called The Relaxation & Stress Reduction Workbook by Martha Davis, Elizabeth Robbins Eshelman and Matthew McKay

I hope you’ll enjoy it too.

You can use this exercise whenever you need to relax for a few minutes.

If you read it through a few times, you’ll find that you remember the steps quite easily.You just give yourself cues by touching your thumb to each of your fingers in turn. But it’s OK to peek at your notes until you get the hang of it. Enjoy the calm.

Five Finger Exercise

After finding a place where you won’t be disturbed for a few minutes and getting comfortable:

1. Begin by touching your thumb to your index finger.  As you bring your thumb and index finger together, think back to a time when your body felt ready for a rest, right after you had been for a walk or jog or swim or some other pleasant, physical exercise. It felt good and healthy to exercise and now it feels good and healthy to rest. Take a deep breath, and then another, and then one more, and give your body time to slow down.

2. When you’re ready to go on, touch your thumb to your middle finger.  As you bring your thumb and middle finger together, think back to a time when you felt very loving toward someone.  It can be anytime that comes to mind. Just remember having a warm loving feeling and let yourself feel it again. Stay with the feeling until you’re ready to move on.

3. Next touch your thumb to your ring finger.  As you bring your thumb and ring finger together, recall a time when you received a nice compliment. Let yourself hear the kind and appreciative words again and take them in. Accept them. And then, if you wish, extend a mental thank you to the person who said them. 

4. And now touch your thumb to your little finger.  As you bring your thumb and little finger together, think back to a beautiful place you have been. Maybe someplace you found awe-inspiring. Take in its beauty once again. The light, the colors, the sounds, the scents, the feeling in the air. Let yourself experience it for a while.

Let yourself be filled with these sweet feelings of peace and love and calm, and after a while, when you’re ready, come back to your resting place, still feeling very peaceful, very loving, very calm and very good.

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I hope you enjoyed this self-hypnosis break. If you’d like to share your experience, you’re welcome to leave a comment. Just click on the word “comments” below and an easy-to-use form will appear.